Breaking up is hard to do, like the old song says, but some people have no trouble at all with it. Being dumped by a boyfriend can be a real heartbreaker. You wait and wait for the phone to ring, for a text, an email, anything to show that he is thinking of you just a little bit. You feel sad all the time, and everything reminds you of him. Is there a way to get him back? When it has happened to me, I wondered how to get my ex boyfriend back, and wondered if I could do it in a way that made it seem like it was his idea. Sometimes men just need a little time away to realize how wonderful we are. If a guy misses us, even a little, that might be the perfect opportunity to let him see how much better his life is when we are in it.